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Jumat, Mei 15, 2009

How fat are you?

Bismillah, I really hope my writing can be useful for other woman especially teenagers.

How fat are you?

When I was still on junior high-school, I weight 58 kilos. And surely I dont have a good image toward my body although I dont show it to other people very often by saying, “Doh, I’m sooooo fat”, etc. I’m 157 cm tall, by the way.

by the way, whether you’re really fat or not, It’s VERY ANNOYING to keep on being negative toward your body by complaining at least one a day : “Oh my, I’m soooo FAT!”. People around you could get really irritated to hear that, you know?

On my senior high-school time, I regularly went swimming. Not very often actually, only once a week except when I’m on my period. After 2 years swimming regularly, I lost only 3 kilos but my size went down several number. From L to M. And my belly is flat.

Now, I’m 70 kilos. I’ve gained 15 kilos on the past 9 years, especially after 2004. So when I recall those old memories with my 55 kilos body, where I can use the dress/ tshirt on size M/L, I got happy now!

I didnt fat at that moment! I was only a bit plumpy! But yeah I’m overweight now, hehe… Surprisingly, I got more confident after I’m 70 rather than when I was still 55…. Alhamdulillah :)

Back to my 55 kilos body, at that moment, still, I feel the urge to lo lose 5-7 more kilos (what the….!) because I read on a teen magazine (those magazine with all the skinny models and beauty advertisement could really give us a hard time, leaving us feeling sorry for our body, dont you think??) and that magazine told the readers that we should count for our ideal weight, this way:

(our height – 110) = our ideal weight
So it means, when I’m 157 cm tall, (157 – 110) = my ideal weight should be less than 50 kilos!! OMG!

After several years of thinking and evaluating, I can say that, that calculation is irrational and that kind of standard will give teenagers (especially GIRLS) a bad impact! Okay, that standard may works on those supermodel, but most of those skinny-super-skinny supermodels dont live healthily, I bet!

I think, the best way to calculate your ideal weight is:
(our height – 100)

Do you know the fact that man prefer a more plumpy (berisi/montok) woman? But Woman enjoys to see other woman who is SKINNY. Yeah, surprise… surprise…

But no, I dont mean to say that you cant be a skinny girl/woman,and if you think that your ideal weight is (your height – 110), well it’s okay then. It’s your body anyway. BUT…

I urge you to go consulting to a nutrician/ doctor about the way you’re going to lose your weights (what kind of diet, how many calories should you take each day, how many times a week should you exercise, etc).


And yeah baby, there’s no way as a shortcut to a slimmer body!! So just forget those pills advertized in the magazine! If you dont want to do regular exercise, so dont even dream to lose weights! Doing exercise regularly is the best way to lose weights.

And oh yeah, you might want to calculate your ideal weight by using BMI (Body Mass Index). Mine shows me that I’m overweight, so I guess I have to start doing exercise regularly if I want to maintain my health!

Rabu, April 08, 2009

Cerita sakit kemaren

Bulan lalu saya 2x sakit. Cerita dibawah ini adalah yang kedua kalinya....

March 18, 2009

Akhirnya tepar juga.
Pusing, nggliyeng, mual dan yang jelas : ga kuat nyetir. Kemaren tidur siang dari pukul 13.30 s.d 15.00 dan pas bangun kok malah terasa gak karu2an. Mual, tapi ga pengen m*ntah.

Lalu berangkat mengajar. Nyampe disana kok semakin ga karu2an rasanya badan ini, 15 menit terakhir menjelang bel semakin kerasa ga karu2an. SMS Suami, minta dia pulang cepet. Lalu bingung, gimana ini Mio-ku? Mau nyetir rasanya udah ga sanggup.

Lalu anak-anak SMP yang kemaren aku ajar di kursus’an, pada berdiskusi: bagaimana baiknya membawa Ms. Tyka beserta motornya pulang. Berikut adalah hasil diskusi kami:

1) Mio-nya ditinggal aja di tempat Kursus, besok diambil.
2) Pulang naik truk aja, Mio sekalian Ms. Tyka diangkut naik truk (emangnya sapi?!!)
3) Nyegat mobil yang lewat aja, nunggu ada yg ke arah rumah saya trs ntar saya naik motor sambil motornya diiket ke mobil itu. Lumayan, irit bensin.
4) Ya apa kalo Ms. Tyka di glundungno ae sampek omah? Hahahaha….

Akhirnya saya pilih option nomer 1, dan pulang naik taxi. Nyampe rumah, teparrr…. Suami nyampe rumah jam 6 dan lalu kami sholat maghrib… trus isya… trus saya makan. Adowww…. ga napsu bangeeet…

Paginya mau ke dokter, tapi ga jadi. Soalnya ternyata saya mens. Kata suami, kalo udah mens, ntar kan sakitnya sembuh. Halah, opo hubungan’e?? Masa ya ini sakit karena PMS? Ya wes yang jelas sampek sekarang ini jam 10 pagi, saya masih kerasa ga enak badan. Mau tiduran aja. Kalo duduk terus, pusing…

Rabu, April 01, 2009

Domino Effect

Sudah pernah denger domino effect?

The domino effect is a chain reaction that occurs when a small change causes a similar change nearby, which then will cause another similar change, and so on in linear sequence. [sumber ##]

Itulah yang saya rasakan beberapa minggu lalu. Satu hal yang stressful dalam keseharian saya, cukup untuk membuat saya menjadi bingung, stress dan…well… efeknya lumayan parah juga. Jadi efek domino gitu. Satu kacau, lama kelamaan… yang lain ikutan kacau juga.

Salah satu efek dominonya? Gangguan kesehatan : I cant breath well, maag, dll. Dari problema kehidupan, merembet ke masalah kesehatan. Klasik. Katanya emang semua penyakit itu sumbernya dari stress, haha.

Makanya ada istilah body & soul. Kedua faktor tsb saling mempengaruhi satu sama lain. Tubuh sakit, otomatis mood juga naik-turun. Mood turun, secara ga langsung membuat tubuh berontak.

Yah, sekarang saya tengah berada tahap awal penanganan stress ini…. Doakan ya, Allah SWT memberikan yang terbaik :)

Senin, Februari 09, 2009

What makes us beautiful

Memang sulit untuk tidak merasa berkecil hati setiap menonton TV atau membaca majalah, dimana wanita cantik didefinisikan secara sempit sebagai,

only those who have : slim body, straight long hair, and fair skin.

Hal-hal dalam diri kita yang membuat kita berbeda dari orang lain, adalah yang sebenarnya membuat kita terlihat cantik, selama kita mampu untuk bersyukur tentang apa yang kita punya dan tidak berusaha untuk terlihat ’serupa, seperti orang lain’.

When you’re happy and grateful with yourself eventhough you are not in size S, trust me : you’ll look pretty.